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Lizzy Cheah's avatar

Excellent insights as always! I always say that a personal brand is what people say about when you’re not in the room, which pairs nicely with how they experience you.

And how I wish I lived in New York so I could come to one of these events! Any chance for online events in future? 😉

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

I agree with you!!! That's definitely what a brand is. I don't think I'll do online events but certainly online workshops :) Come to NYC!

Lizzy Cheah's avatar

My sister in Christ, I’ll be flying for over 24 hours to NYC! 🤣

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

LOL!!! Okay, maybe not! Back to the drawing board.

Leslie Lazard's avatar

Congratulations on hosting your first in-person event! I'm interested in hearing more about that branding exercise - sounds like it was GOOD.

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

Thank you so much Leslie! Off The Record follows Chatham House Rules, so the exercise lives there 😉

It will be one of my go tos in the future though!

Ashley La Fleur's avatar

Love love love all of this!! The photos are 👏🏼

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

WE MISSED YOU!!!

Ashley La Fleur's avatar

😭😭😭

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

❤️❤️❤️❤️ they capture the moment so well

Jhéy's avatar

Loved reading every minute of this!

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

Thank you for reading - love that you loved it 😊

Nalima's avatar

An inspiring day, I’m honored to have been part of the start of something truly special surrounded by exceptional women. Thank you Ashley!

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

Thank you Nalima! Was wonderful having you there.

Lia Zneimer's avatar

Thank you so much for the shoutout, Ashley! What a fun surprise! And congrats on your first in-person event!

I'm going to be thinking about this line for a long time: "What surfaced was consistent across almost every woman in the room: there was a gap between how these women described themselves and how others experienced them. Their words weren’t inaccurate, they were just smaller in their own telling than who they were in reality."

SO wild to hear/see how often women minimize their own contributions or identities—I 100% do the same and am working on it.

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

Thank you!!! And you’re welcome, I love surprises.

Also, it helps to know it’s not just you :) it’s a very normal thing that we *can* change.

Winy Bernard Bertin's avatar

Still beaming from it, thank you Ash!

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

Thank you for flying in from TORONTO to be here!!

Ali Kriegsman's avatar

The best day!!!

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

❤️❤️❤️❤️

Tamera Darden's avatar

First congrats on a successful event!

2nd, thank you for the shout out!!!

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

Thank you!! Your Goldman Sachs program newsletter lives rent-free in my head lol

Tamera Darden's avatar

‼️‼️‼️‼️ happy I followed my instincts and wrote the letter! The comments are also a gem!

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

You know....when you have good instincts (which you definitely do lmao), YOUR GUT IS ALWAYS RIGHT!!!

Tamera Darden's avatar

LOL! I appreciate this affirmation! TRULY!

Kate Citron's avatar

This event looks like a dream. And your OUTFIT!!!

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

Thank you Kate!! Honestly, I am still buzzing from it. Can't wait to do another!

Sarah's avatar

I love thinking about my brand through the eyes of others experiencing me! That’s such a cool way to look at it, thanks Ashley!

Ashley Rudolph's avatar

When I realized that most of the time people think what you're doing is bigger/more impressive than you do, it gave me permission to be a little more bold.