Great collection of insights! I especially appreciate you highlighting the personal (as well as professional) toll they can take because they really do take a toll.
Thank you Holly! Writing this made me think about the fact that they’re not patterns that people surface/articulate often because it looks like high performance (and it is - until it’s not). There’s so much nuance.
IT IS!!! And the wild part is that it’s not something you solve once and never face again. You might master it at one level, then have to revisit it at the next. It keeps showing up, just in new forms. You can do it though :)
Ooof “it feels easier to just fix it than to sit with the discomfort of it not being solved.” 🔥
That one’s so real, right?! I’ve had so many moments where I was like “but I can just fix it!!!”
it’s a compulsion for me! ✨ fixing is so satisfying 😅
Always just absolutely NAILING it. 👏👏👏
One of the realest lessons I learned was that asserting your leadership is about the choices you make!
Great collection of insights! I especially appreciate you highlighting the personal (as well as professional) toll they can take because they really do take a toll.
Thank you Holly! Writing this made me think about the fact that they’re not patterns that people surface/articulate often because it looks like high performance (and it is - until it’s not). There’s so much nuance.
Absolutely! It's hard to spot potentially destructive patterns that are rewarded or that feel like productivity.
#5 in particular is huge!! I definitely have to keep myself accountable on this one, it’s hard
IT IS!!! And the wild part is that it’s not something you solve once and never face again. You might master it at one level, then have to revisit it at the next. It keeps showing up, just in new forms. You can do it though :)